By: Sabuj || Date: 18 Oct 20
The words relationship, love, and affection are very common these days. Such relationships are formed through the exchange of feelings between boys and girls. However, not all love relationships are accepted by families. From the earliest times, even the legendary love story of Layla and Majnu did not receive familial approval.
At this point, you might wonder: “Why is the discussion about love while talking about kidnapping cases?” Please wait, I’ll explain everything. Also, here’s something to note: if you are a boy, being in a romantic relationship can make you potentially liable to several criminal charges!
Recently, an international human rights organization called Control Risks reported that Bangladesh ranks ninth among the top 10 countries in the world for kidnapping cases. After this data was published in Bangladeshi media, the police department protested. Assistant Inspector General (AIG) of Police Headquarters, Md. Nazrul Islam, stated in a protest letter:
"Even in the world’s ninth most populous country, Bangladesh, when couples elope due to love, kidnapping cases are filed. In such cases, 84% of all kidnapping cases are filed against boyfriends for allegedly abducting the girls."
Yes, you heard that correctly: according to Bangladesh Police, 84% of all kidnapping cases in Bangladesh are love-related!
Now the question arises: what exactly is a love-related kidnapping case?
Suppose two teenagers or college students fall in love. If the girl’s family does not accept the relationship, the couple may decide to elope and marry. Whenever a couple elopes without parental consent, the girl’s parents often go to the police and file a kidnapping case against the boy, his family, and his friends.
In most such cases, the boy and girl are teenagers. Even though both decide to elope together, the law often only holds the boy, his family, and friends accountable, while the girl is considered a victim. Serious charges like kidnapping and even rape are sometimes filed only against the boy and his family, not the girl.